January Review – Millennial Dad 2017 Goals

At the start of the year I wrote a blog to set out my goals for the Millennial Dad movement. I pinned it to my Twitter profile as a public statement but also to hold me accountable to myself, if that makes sense. I’m often reminded of them whenever I check my profile:

1. Define my vision.
2. Publish my book.
3. Establish my web presence.

So far I’ve made the most progress with establishing my web presence. I’ve set up accounts through the main social media channels and started to make use of them in different ways. Whereas I thought Twitter and Instagram were synonymous and I could post the same thing to each, I’ve realised each has its own advantages. Twitter is great for interacting with people and I’ve enjoyed discovering and learning from other parent bloggers. Instagram is a really great place for images and also to engage with others across the world on different topics.

Here are some shout outs for two people I’ve particularly enjoyed following.

Twitter: @youbabymemummy. Does a great job in sharing tips about blogging which is particularly useful for those of us just starting out. There’s so much great material on her blog and regular links to stuff through Twitter.

Instagram: @FatherofDaughters. This guy is hilarious and posts some truly fantastic content. He’s obviously successful, too, as his posts are liked by thousands of people. He gives a daily insights into life as a dad to four girls.

I’ve also taken the plunge and opted to self-host my blog.

I thought that if I was serious about it I should just go for it. So I saw a recommendation for a hosting company called Siteground and a design company called Pipdig. It was really easy to set up. And by really easy I mean I didn’t have to do a thing! The Pipdig guys very kindly connected everything for me and installed a cool WordPress blog theme. So now I have a brilliant site and I’ve tried to bring together all my social media onto the page. It looks pretty good if I say so myself, even if my ugly mug is plastered at the top of the page.

So I think I’ve gone some way to establishing my web presence although I know this job will never really end. The point of a social web presence is to stay engaged so I know my blog will evolve over time.

Finally, on branding I’ve commissioned a designer on Fiverr to produce a new logo to give me a bit more of an identity.

Where does that leave my other goals?

I haven’t made much progress with the book for a while. I bashed out an early draft but it’s still at the monkeys on typewriters stage. I’ve started to read through some early chapters but I’ve not made much progress with editing. Now I’m up and running with the blog and starting to post regular content, this should inspire me to get on with the book. After all, the book was my main idea before the blog took hold.

And on defining my vision, I don’t feel I’ve made much progress of actually writing it down. I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about what I want to achieve but I still need to articulate it. Work out my elevator pitch, as they say. Vision should really come first and then everything else should flow from it. But one of the best pieces of advice I ever got was not to wait until something is perfect. Just get on and do it. JFDI.

So that’s January done and only 11 months to go until 2018.

I’d love to devote more time to the Millennial Dad but I’ve got a full time job and a daughter to look after, too, so I’m beginning to learn the art of managing my time wisely. Oh, and the small matter of another baby on the way in March. Eek!

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